It was with some trepidation I faced up to the fact that I was reaching the big Four-Oh. Only a number, a far-off time, it-will-never-happen-to-me milestone. But happen to me it did, and although I still feel... maybe... 26, and just out of university, the truth is I am now grown up and it gets me wondering what, if anything, I have achieved so far.
I have a husband of 14 years, two children, a mortgage, two tenants, a job (which will potentially save a lot of lives) and a bunch of fabulous friends. So what else could a girl possibly want? I have a pretty hectic social life, a love of food and writing (which may or may not lead to something more, depending on whether I get this 40-year-old ass in gear), and a healthy new year plan to cut back on the alcohol (and subsequently the pot belly). So it's all good, yes? Worth celebrating? OF COURSE!
It's not perfect, whose life is? But I am luckier than most. And the mind is a powerful thing. If I can be better, I will be. If I can focus on changing one little thing at a time, then I'm sure I too can make this world a better place. So with all that advice to myself, I will be happier this year, and I will try to spread the joy to my loved ones.
So let's party, people!
I LOVE planning parties, so there was no way I was going to hand this one over. With around 80 guests, there were a few last-minute nerves, but in the end it was, for me anyway, a brilliant night.
It was a New York themed party with a Friends dress code. Twinkling fairy lights (just like Ross&Emily's wedding), and a snow machine (New York Winter/Phoebe's wedding). I was hoping for a few Holiday Armadillos, but sadly none showed up...
I wore a Monica chef's hat with 'Hey! How You Doin'?' written on it. I wanted to be a bit glamorous so didn't go for the whole chef's outfit. Himself dressed as Gary Oldman (and/or Joey) in his WWI outfit from The One With Monica and Chandler's Wedding. The best costume was my friend Kim in her Monica waitress costume, with massive fake boobs and blonde wig. Also, Princess Leia and the gold bikini showed up looking wonderful - she was also in charge of the playlist - thanks Emma (and Rhona)!
I wanted to have Central Perk coffee cup shaped cupcakes, so I ordered some vintage wrappers. They never arrived (who was in charge of cups? 'She's gonna rue the day she put me in charge of cups...'), so I made do with some polka dotted cases in various colours. The cupcakes were lemon, with a white chocolate and lemon ganache and an Italian meringue topping (recipe here). Just like a cup of coffee then! The handles were piped by my sister in the shape of, er, handles.
'I can handle this. "Handle" is my middle name. Actually, "handle" is the middle of my first name.' - Chandler Bing.
|Central Perk Coffee Cupcakes|
Big thanks to Himself, my sisters, and all my friends and family who made it a night to remember, and for all the wonderful gifts. As I now have to accept the fact that I've reached an age where I'm officially old, it's actually become kind of cool. I'm not 40, I'm 22 with 18 years of experience.
Venue: The Winchmore
Lighting and Snow Machine Hire: Powerhouse Hire, Barnet